7 Keys to Powerful First Impressions

Image Development is the science and art of creating a Powerful First Impression. In the first thirty seconds people make judgments about you on a subconscious level, based on what they see, hear and sense. To create a Powerful First Impression, you must create a positive visual impact.

Here are 7 Keys to Creating Powerful First Impressions

1. Smile! A genuine smile, one that reaches your eyes and shines through your face and body language, is one that will encourage people to smile back. It makes strangers more comfortable with you, makes you seem more approachable, and gives a sense of comfort to those around you.

2. Use direct eye contact ? You can convey power, authority and presence by using direct eye contact and direct eye contact also conveys trustworthiness and confidence. Be careful not to stare hard at another person, or you could convey a more confrontational attitude.

3. Wear colors compatible with your basic coloring ? Human beings are one of two colorations: warm or cool. People with warm coloring look best in yellow-based colors like gold, warm reds, golden browns, and rich ivory. People with cool coloring look best in blue-based colors like true reds, blues, greens and winter white. Your eye, hair and skin tone help determine whether you are cool or warm, and that helps determine what colors look best on you!

4. Have great Hair Days! ? Don't fight your natural hair texture. If you have extremely curly hair, find a hairdresser that has the skill and patience to cut naturally curly hair and celebrate it. You can develop a unique presence by your hairstyle, so if it's straight, wavy, kinky, curly or nappy, enjoy it, and get a hairstyle that works with your natural texture. It'll save you time and aggravation over fighting to straighten extra-curly hair, or trying to get kinky hair to lie flat like newspaper.

5. Watch those lines! ? Every day that you get dressed, you are sending a message. If you purchase clothing based on it's effect on your body frame and choose items that celebrate your best features, getting dressed will no longer become an occasion for anxiety, but one of joy and happiness! The right proportions of clothing can make you look younger and thinner (or fuller, if you want that!) or they can make you look dowdy, matronly or unfinished. Choose to look your best in clothing that flatters your silhouette, body frame and size.

6. Avoid trendiness at all costs ? The trend of the moment may not be right for you! Some of the fashion trends that have come and gone include micro-minis, hot pants, the 'grunge' look, psychedelic eye makeup and others. Though these trends may be fun to look at, they are often impractical for everyday wear, or simply not affordable. Choose items for your wardrobe that can serve multiple purposes and won't look dated as soon as they are purchased.

7. Spend well, not often ? Use the principle of Capsule Wardrobing to choose several colors that look great on you, then mix and match pieces within those colors to create a workable, professional and easy-to-wear wardrobe that won't cost an arm and a leg as you try to keep up with the "trend of the moment". You can purchase just 12 garments in 3 basic colors, plus 1 or 2 accent colors, and create 35 ? 40 different outfits!

~~~Build a Happy Relationsip ~~~~~

* be willing to change
* be honest to ur spouse
* avoid competition between the two of u
* both must complemet each other
* avoid being possessive and selfish
* be kind,gentle,patient,and loving
* keep romance alive in the relationship
* say sorry if u hav made a mistake
* be supportive in watever he or she does
* have integrity and tis wil gain honour
* be a good listener,pay attention and be open
* give surprises as it adds tonic to the romance
* cracking jokes helps to build cheerful romance
* never brgpast problems and unpleasant incidents
* develop compassion for ur partner n urself
* noe the likes n dislikes to shape the relationship
* exercise sweetness of spech n never use harsh words
* treat ur spouse the way u would like to be treated
* leave littl nottes for him or her wen u mis each other
* express appreciation by saying thank u een for everyday things
* practice forgiveness as sometimes mistakes are made unintentionally

i truly believe nobody is perfect but everyone can grow to improve and give their best but both sides must be willing to change!

instead of blaming their partner wen something goes wrong,they should look inside themselves to see if there is something they can change.

when both sides hav this attitude,the relationship grows stronger n stronger,healthy relationships takes time n it is a life long process.

JUST LIKE IT TAKES TWO HAND TO CLAP,A GOOD RELATIONSHIP INVOLVES BOTH SIDES!!

every relationship has to pass through good n bad times but wat is important is STANDING BY EACH OTHER THROUGH TOUGH TIMES coz such test is to strengthens the vow the couple hav made to be together....

Virginity...

Virginity...for both gender not only for girls...

Love may seem very convincing till one day he comes and say...i wanna have sex with you. She says no. He then plays his normal game.." you don trust me rite...you don't love me rite. Then she cries n says..' No dear i love u the most in this world and I'll do anything for you. Just don't say like this anymore please.

She agrees to it just for him. After everything is over. She sees a lot of changes in him; not the way he used to love her. She gets very hurt but couldn't do much. She offered herself to him so she's afraid to loose him. Sometimes he treats her very well but its only for 1 reason...' Can we do it again?' she had no choice...it goes on 4 a few months and he finally says...' i don't think its going on well...I'm interested in someone else' I'm sorry" and he walks off.....she cries a lot for a few months then the lonely soul becomes weak. Her life is ruined, she changes a lot. She sleeps wit every guy she get into a relationship with....and the same things happen. No good guys willing to accept her because she's not virgin anymore...and finally she starts to become someone very cheap...

Almost 80 - 90% today's teens are destroyed because of sex. Both are to be blamed. They failed to understand what is love.

Ask these questions to yourself

1. Have your partner ever asked you to have sex?
2. Is there any changes in him after sex?

You the most luckiest person if your answer is 'NO' and if it's 'YES'...ask yourself why? Dont blame your partner but blame yourself...

To all girls n boys, love is not about sex. 'Life is a journey, not a destination'

18 signs u r in love..

EIGHTEEN :
> you get so jealous when someone comment them saying they are cute.

SEVENTEEN:
> You look at their profile constantly.

SIXTEEN:
> When you're on the phone with them late at night and they hang up, you still miss them even when it was just two minutes ago.

FIFTEEN:
> You read their Texts and Ims Over and over again.

FOURTEEN:
> You walk really slow when you're with them.

THIRTEEN:
> You feel shy whenever they're around.

ELEVEN:
> When you think about them, your heart beats faster but slower at the same time.

TEN:
> You smile when you hear their voice.

NINE:
> When you look at them, you can't see the other people around you, you just see him/her.

EIGHT:
> You start listening to slow songs while thinking about them.

SEVEN:
> They're all you think about.

SIX:
> You get high just from their scent.

FIVE:
> You realize you're always smiling when you're looking at them.

FOUR:
> You would do anything for them!

THREE:
> While reading this, there was one person on your mind this whole time.

TWO:
> You were so busy thinking about that person, you didn't notice number twelve was missing.

ONE:
> You just scrolled up to check & are now silently laughing at yourself.

ARE U A GOOD GIRLFRIEND?? ?

Q1. Do you love your boyfriend?
a) Yes
b) No
c) I think so.

Q2. Did you answer the earlier question truthfully?
a) Yes
b) No
c) uhhh

Q3. Would you date another guy,if your boyfriend is out of town for 2
months
a) Yes
b) No
c) Not Sure

Q4. Do you talk about your ex-boyfriend with your current?
a) No
b) Yes,Sometimes
c) Very Often

Q5. If your boyfriend is busy and asks you to run a few errands for, you ?
a) Agree Happily
b) Refuse Flatly
c) I'll think about it

Q6. Do you mind if your boyfriend maintains friendly contact with other girls?
a) No
b) Yes
c) I dont mind either way

Q7. If a good looking hunk proposes to you,you would
a) Politely refuse him,but thank for asking
b) Thank him for asking and dump your current boyfriend
c) Simply say,No.

Q8. Do you always get things done the way you plan?
a) Yes
b) No
c) Sometimes

Q9. On your guy's Birthday,you would get him
a) The latest gaming console,he was dreaming about
b) A Cheap shirt
c) None of the above


Points:
Q1 (a) 5, (b) 3, (c) 2
Q2 (a) 5, (b) 2, (c) 3
Q3 (a) 2, (b) 5, (c) 3
Q4 (a) 5, (b) 3, (c) 2
Q5 (a) 5, (b) 2, (c) 3
Q6 (a) 2, (b) 5, (c) 3
Q7 (a) 3, (b) 2, (c) 5
Q8 (a) 2, (b) 5, (c) 3
Q9.(a) 5, (b) 3, (c) 2

What Each Kiss Means

What Each Kiss Means
- Kiss on the stomach: I'm ready.
- Kiss on the Forehead: I hope we're together forever.
- Kiss on the Ear: You're my everything.
- Kiss on the Cheek: We're friends.
- Kiss on the Hand: I adore you.
- Kiss on the Neck: We belong together.
- Kiss on the Shoulder: I want you.
- Kiss on the Lips: I love you.

45 things “Girls” love. . .

1-touch her waist
2-talk to her
3-share secrets
4-give her your jacket
5-kiss her slowly
>>
6-hug her
7-hold her
8-laugh with her
9-invite her somewhere
10-let her be with you when you're
with your friends
>>
11-smile with her
12-take pictures with her
13-pull her onto your lap
14-when she says she loves you more,
deny it. Fight back
15-when her friends say that they love her
more than you, deny it. Fight back
and hug her tight so she can’t
get to her friends.
It makes her feel
loved . . .
>>
16-always hug her when you see her
17-kiss her unexpectedly
18-***HUG HER FROM BEHIND, AROUND THE WAIST!!!***
19-tell her she is beautiful not sexy!
20-tell her the way you feel about her!
(U needs to show her that you mean it too)
21-kiss her on the lips
22-DONT ask her to buy you stuff. You
buy HER stuff
23-TELL HER WHAT FEELS GOOD
24-make her feel loved
25-buy her stuff.
Small things can help
>>
26-DON'T LIE TO HER.
27-DON'T CHEAT ON HER.
28-take her anywhere she wants
29-SMS or CALL her in the
morning and tell her have a good day,
And how much you miss her!!!!
30-be there for her when ever she
needs you, & even when she doesn't need you,
Just be there so she'll know that
She can always count on you
>>
31. Hold her close when she's cold and
she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close
and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the tip of her nose;
(it will give her the hint that
You want to kiss her)
34. While in the movie, put your arm
around her and then
She will automatically put
her head on your shoulder,
Then lean in and tilt
her chin up and
kiss her lightly.
35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even
jokingly or act like you're mad.
If she’s upset, comfort her
>>
36. When people ditch her,
Stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell
her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put
her head on your chest
So she can listen to the
steady beat of your heart,
Link your fingers together
while you whisper to her
As she rests her eyes
and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other
grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your
arms as long as possible
41. Call her at night to wish her
sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and
wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night
44. Dedicate a song to her.
45. Always remind her
How much you love her.